{"id":1421,"date":"2014-09-19T13:18:41","date_gmt":"2014-09-19T13:18:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.happiness-speaker.co.uk\/?p=1421"},"modified":"2014-09-19T13:18:41","modified_gmt":"2014-09-19T13:18:41","slug":"scottish-referendum-results-lessons-learnt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/building.happiness-speaker.com\/?p=1421","title":{"rendered":"Scottish Referendum Results | Lessons Learnt"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>Yesterday, votes were cast in the Scottish Referendum, today, the results came in&#8230;<\/h3>\n<h4>There are lessons we can all learn from the process and outcome<\/h4>\n<p>Whichever side of the voting fence you were on, this week has marked a momentous historical occasion.\u00a0 It is important now to focus on what comes next, but also to reflect on what we can learn from the Scottish Referendum.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, let me admit a bias towards &#8216;No&#8217;.\u00a0 So yes, I am very pleased with the result.\u00a0 I am not Scottish or even British, but I do live in England (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.doncasterfreepress.co.uk\/news\/exclusive-och-aye-donny-is-a-part-of-scotland-1-4250714\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">in Doncaster, in fact, which may technically belong to Scotland!<\/a>) and I grew up as an Italian-German in Luxembourg and then moved to the UK.\u00a0 I grew up in the hub of EU activity, attending the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.euroschool.lu\/luxschool\/home.php\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">European School<\/a>.\u00a0 I was in this hub of <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/European_Union\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">EU <\/a>activity when it was still the <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/European_Economic_Community\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">EEC.<\/a>\u00a0 I grew up in a culturally and linguistically diverse environment and am therefore more than slightly biased towards union and co-operation.<\/p>\n<p>But this little foray into my educational past aside, I have seen how collaboration and co-operation can work in business, too.\u00a0 Whether it&#8217;s with customers, suppliers, colleagues or even competitors.\u00a0 A great example of this is the collaboration and support that professional speakers offer each other within the <a href=\"http:\/\/thepsa.co.uk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">PSA<\/a>, even amongst those that speak on similar topics.<\/p>\n<h4>So, now we&#8217;ve dealt with disclosure of how I feel about the outcome, here are the lessons I feel we can learn from the Scottish Referendum:<\/h4>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Scottish Referendum Results | Lessons Learnt\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/NrM6nN4LHMY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>It is important to be gracious in defeat as well as in victory.\u00a0 Now is not the time for bitter bite-backs or gleeful gloating. In all relationships, whether they are personal ones or business ones, this is a key point to moving beyond conflict and towards co-operation.<\/li>\n<li>It is important to focus on moving forward, not looking back.\u00a0 Accepting the outcome of a dispute and working together to make adjustments and achieve a more positive future for all involved is key.<\/li>\n<li>You may be one of the 1.6m Scottish voters who are bitterly disappointed today.\u00a0 Ranting and raving and lashing out at &#8216;the opposition&#8217; is not going to change the outcome and holding on to anger has the potential to raise your stress levels and affect your health &amp; well-being as well as your relationships with those around you.\u00a0 This also applies to disappointing outcomes in any personal or business situation.\n<ul>\n<li>YOU have a choice: You can choose your mood, your actions, your attitude.<\/li>\n<li>You can choose to put the events into context (the key positive context of the Referendum, in my opinion, is that we live in a democracy in which it was possible for this to take place) and to focus your energy on moving forward in a positive way.<\/li>\n<li>You can choose to be happy even when things don&#8217;t go the way you&#8217;d hoped.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>Happiness is a deliberate state of mind!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;d like to book me to speak, train or consult, please <a title=\"Contact\" href=\"http:\/\/www.happiness-speaker.co.uk\/contact\/\">get in touch<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>My book, &#8216;Recipe for Happiness&#8217;, is <a title=\"Author\" href=\"http:\/\/www.happiness-speaker.co.uk\/about\/author\/\">available to buy in e-book and paperback formats<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday, votes were cast in the Scottish Referendum, today, the results came in&#8230; There are lessons we can all learn from the process and outcome Whichever side of the voting fence you were on, this week has marked a momentous historical occasion.\u00a0 It is important now to focus on what comes next, but also to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1424,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,222,223,39,4,17,224,228],"tags":[221,225,226,227,229,230,31],"class_list":["post-1421","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-business-relationships","category-conflict","category-gratitude","category-happiness","category-news-events","category-personal-relationships","category-relationships","tag-business","tag-politics","tag-referendum","tag-relationships-2","tag-scotland","tag-scottish-referendum","tag-uk"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/building.happiness-speaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1421","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/building.happiness-speaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/building.happiness-speaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/building.happiness-speaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/building.happiness-speaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1421"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/building.happiness-speaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1421\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/building.happiness-speaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1421"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/building.happiness-speaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1421"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/building.happiness-speaker.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1421"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}